Living with No Regrets
kdillon2012-10-19T10:19:44+00:00"What are your dreams?" Someone asked me that soon after I separated from my ex. The question stumped me. I didn't have an answer, and I was embarrassed I could not conjure up one thing
Single Me vs. Married Me
kdillon2012-09-07T14:45:10+00:00Married Me would rise most weekday mornings at 5:30 to run at least six miles. One weekend morning each week she would typically run 10. Her cycling would never be shorter than a 20-mile ride.
The Definition of Success
kdillon2012-06-29T14:26:27+00:00When you hear someone mention a "successful person," is the assumption this person has a healthy work-life balance or is happy? Of course not. The implication is financial wealth or status. It is how we
What’s Your Excuse?
kdillon2012-05-01T09:14:55+00:00My ex competed for a slot on the U.S. Short Course Duathlon team last weekend. He has made the team the last several years and enjoys traveling to represent the U.S. in the world championship
It’s Never Too Late
kdillon2012-03-19T14:23:01+00:00Starting over. Learning something new. Choosing a different path to follow. These are all terrifying concepts. There is comfort in making excuses for being stuck in one place; less risk is involved. It is much
Peering In and Down from the Top
kdillon2012-01-25T11:38:49+00:00Peering down from the top of an indoor climbing wall on Sunday, my belayer continued to repeat she was prepared for me to descend. It was good to know, but I wasn't ready. As I
Summer Days
kdillon2011-06-09T12:35:36+00:00"Who wants to spend the first week of summer sitting inside (and spending large amounts of money) working on dismantling a marriage? My guess is no one." And so started the first post
New Beginnings
kdillon2011-06-03T12:30:43+00:00This week I have felt every emotion possible as a result of finalizing my divorce. It has been a hard week, but by last night I felt more like myself. I was relaxed and at
Start of Summer Redux
kdillon2010-06-28T09:33:28+00:00Who wants to spend the first week of summer sitting inside (and spending large amounts of money) working on dismantling a marriage? My guess is no one. Last week was a terrible start to summer.