After writing a non-resolution post at the beginning of the year, I followed it up a few days later with a three-word commitment. The exercise in choosing three words to be ever mindful of as I moved into 2012 was a great decision, and I am still working hard to stay committed to my three words. I chose the following words to help shape and define my year:
- Focus
- Achieve
- Patience
As the end of 2012 is fast approaching, I have felt a bit of angst over what I haven’t accomplished this year. I have felt the urge to push myself to do more before the calendar year closes.
Recently I took time to think of what my life looked like in January of this year compared to now. The frustration I was feeling has calmed as a result. My consulting business has exceeded my first year expectations, I added more classes to teach, and shot a few weddings. Studio30 Plus continues to grow. I was able to redefine what I want in a relationship following a breakup this summer. That learning lesson coupled with another significant breakup a few years ago has led to me finding myself in the best relationship I have experienced since the split in my marriage. The list of great memories with the kids and friends this year are too numerous to name. Overall, it’s been a wonderful year, with three great words guiding me.
Feeling frustrated with my seemingly lack of progress, thinking of my three words, and then recognizing my successes this year was a great mental exercise. It has reminded me I need to spend more time focusing on the good; too often I dismiss what I have done to focus on what I have yet to accomplish.
My third word, patience, is what I really need to accomplish successfully between now and the end of the year.
How are you doing with resolutions you set this year?
Be kind to yourself when evaluating.
Sometimes we all need to stop & look at the good we’ve experienced rather than where things have fallen short. I admit, I haven’t been doing that of late. Thanks for reminding me it’s not all “suck” out there.
It’s so easy to get caught up in where we have fallen short. I am glad this post was able to be your reminder. I need to focus on this more, too.